How one's greatest purpose places everything else in context · Как самая возвышенная цель расставаясь все остальное по местам

The greatest purpose of people must be development of love to God. Thus aiming at increasing love to God one automatically gets quick opportunity to increase love to his/her close people.

How woman can find herself in the state of serene happiness again · Как женщинам вернуться к состоянию безмятежного счастья

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"I am Soul" - this is innermost knowledge that has been allowing a woman to be at peace, loving and happy all her life. It has been a secret of not only her happiness but also of welfarism of nations. How does this knowledge work?

Treating herself as Soul a woman knew: Soul is eternal so there is nothing to be afraid of - problems come and go but life never ends. Soul is full of love - love does not give out, increase in love leads to increase in happiness. Soul is happiness, being happy is natural. Soul is beauty, it uncovers the best feelings. Soul means mercifulness and kindness. Soul is gentleness and warmness. Advanced, naturally developed Soul acts as a magnet to Courage that gives her protection. A woman that follows her gentle loving nature is always attractive to a strong generous man. This is known to be the law of harmony. It is the law of life that our ancestors believed and practiced. Purity, kindness and gentleness of a woman guaranteed her a happy life.
That way, women remained under protection of men all their life: first, she would be protected by her father and brothers, then by her husband and in later years her sons and other relatives would support her. But who would bring up such honorable and strong men? A woman! When women find fault with men they rather should pay attention to how they raise their sons.
In the similar manner women would be under wing of every man in the society. Females of the past knew how to interact with men other than of her family without contamination of relationships. All elderly men were treated as fathers, younger ones were addressed as sons or younger brothers and men of the same age were referred as brothers. (c)

On the purpose of life · О цели жизни

Thank you, Счастье по-женски

The main purpose of my life is Divine Love experienced through selfless service, complete presence in the moment of now, seeing God at every turn, complete inner acceptance of everything and everybody, continuous gratitude and absolute absence of claims
(c) Rami Bleckt

Главная цель моей жизни – Божественная Любовь, через без-корыстное служение, полное присутствие в настоящем моменте, видение Бога везде и во всем, полное внутреннее всеприятие всего и всех, постоянное чувство благодарности и совершенное отсутствие претензий
(с) Рами Блект

The joy of life · Радость жизни

Thank you, Женская санга!

You don't sing a song in order to arrive to a final note.
The joy of a song is always in the singing of it.
It's the same thing with life.
The joy of life is in the living of it.
Chuck Hillig Seeds for the Soul: Living As the Source of Who You Are

Ты поешь песню не для того, чтобы добраться до последней ноты.
Радость доставляет само пение.
То же самое касается жизни.
Радость в том - чтобы жить.
Чак Хиллиг Seeds for the Soul: Living As the Source of Who You Are

Woman power: let's make it clear · Сила женщины: внесём ясность

The power of woman beauty originates in inner peace whereas...

 ...power of men comes from work.

Simple truth for the life and gender balance =)

Простая истина для соблюдения жизненного и гендерного баланса =)

Journey to love · Путь к любви

Am i ready to sacrifice most essential things for the sake of love? This is the question one who follows the way of spiritual development has to ask him-/herself every day. If i am not ready then love has not yet developed in my heart, then i am just in the beginning of my journey. That is why love is challenging: everybody can please his/her feelings but actual denying his/her affections lies on a different level - level of sacrifice and selfless devotion. That is why real love is being built on the spiritual ground. The rest is related to desire or lust. Lust takes place if one is ready to satisfy his/her feelings but is not ready to renounce his/her affections.
V.Ruzov

Assurances by Max Ehrmann · Гарантии (Уверенность), автор Макс Эрманн

Situ Gutung, Indonesia (By Hardi Budi, Your Shot, National Geographic)
Thank you Save trees save earth!

Out of the silent moon, Out of the midst of the Milky Way, Out of the gleams of the sentry stars, Out of the after-day - Out of the wonderful songs of birds, Out of the storm-wind's whistling throes, Out of the living green fields, Out of the bloom of the rose - Out of the music laughter holds, Out of the lips of kisses curled - Boundless assurances everywhere, Out of the joy of the world. -- Max Ehrmann

Из тихой луны, Из середины Млечного Пути, Из проблесков сторожевых звёзд, Из дня последующего, Из чудесных песен птиц, Из свестящей муки штормовых ветров, Из живых зелёных полей, Из цветка розы - Из музыки, что излучает смех, Из губ свернувшихся в поцелуе - Проистекает уверенность отовсюду, Из радости этого мира. -- Макс Эрманн

When a Girl is a true life companion · Истинная спутница жизни

1. She who deeply understands the purpose of life of her husband as well as opportunities of his destiny is his true life companion.

When a woman marries a man she has to get truly inspired but what a man considers his life purpose. She has to completely support his goals and inspire him to do whatever he considers needful. She has to be very excited about his purpose and look forward to it. By doing this she kindles his enthusiasm, actually nourishes his sense. As a result he self-develops very quickly. He matures. But there is a condition: if a woman does not accept living circumstances which her man is able to provide in the very beginning, she will destroy her life as well as life of her husband.

Woman has to bless her destiny for the life she was given, she has to be absolutely satisfied by what her destiny brings her. When she is satisfied she does not demand anything from her husbandю When she is at peace her husband himself starts developing quality of responsibility, he blooms as a man and this is what grows her love for him.

2. There cannot be expected happy family life if wife is not able to inspire her man to fulfill his responsibilities. If she fails to do it her family loses wealth and all other things.

Woman's main quality is ability to inspire her man to fulfill his responsibilities. To inspire means respect him and take care of him, support him in what he intends to do the right thing and do not support his unwillingness to do it. woman has to be very strict with her husband when he does not want to fulfill his duty, she has to be like a stone and her behavior has to be firm.

3. If a woman possesses all qualities of a true life companion her husband has nothing more to wish, he has everything. But if she does not have those qualities he has nothing.

4. Could there be bigger treasure in life than such a just wife.

5. A good wife upon rising worships not God but expresses her respect for her husband and Vedas consider it to be sufficient. Even clouds will obey such a woman and rains will fall at her command.

She who takes up ascesis to see her husband as dignified person and respect him becomes puissant personality. It is very difficult for a woman to do so due to the special thing she has about her psychу - she cannot not see the truth. She can see through one and knows all his qualities at once. If a woman is pure with regards to her husband she knows all his twists and turns and despite this she has to obey him. When a woman is determined to respect her husband unconditionally she gradually observes him changing as well. 

6. Is there any use in woman's selflessness and ascesis if she develops herself but not relationships with her husband. Что проку в отречении и аскетизме женщины, которая работает над собой и не работает над отноешниями с мужем.
Indeed only those women who invest all their energy into their husbands reach perfection in their lives. Else their family breaks due to the fact that difference in mental position between a wife and a husband becomes fatal.
Tirukkural narrated by doctor O.G.Torsunov

Fight for destiny · Битва за судьбу

"One must fight for his/her destiny every second of his/her life. The only way to do it is Prayers and positive determination."

"Каждую секунду своей жизни человек должен сражаться за свою судьбу. Единственный способ сражаться – это Молитвы и позитивные настрои."

О.Г.Торсунов "Законы счастливой жизни"

4 kinds of love · 4 вида любви

1. Virtuous love means desire to selflessly do good to your loved one or care. Love for work also belongs to the virtuous kind.
2. Passionate love is marked by egoistic mindset: everybody who loves me has to take care of me, only then i will love them back.
3. Benighted love results from alcohol. One has a drink, feels good. Another kind of benighted love is distorted love which brings only suffering. Addiction to alcohol leads to this kind of love.
4. There is love that stands above all these 3 ones - love for God. Person that has this rear gift automatically develops all good attributes of character.
(c) 2000-2004, Doctor O.G.Torsunov, WWW.TORSUNOV.RU

1.Любовь в благости означает желание бескорыстно сделать что-то хорошее для близкого человека или забота. Любовь к труду также находится в благости.
2.Любовь в страсти характеризуется эгоистической установкой, все кто меня любит должны заботиться обо мне, тогда и я буду их любить.
3.Любовь в невежестве бывает от спирта. Подвыпил, и стало хорошо. Также в невежестве находится извращенная любовь, которая приносит одни страдания. Постоянное употребление спиртного как раз приводит к такой любви.
4.Существует любовь, которая стоит выше этих трех видов - это любовь к Богу. У человека, который обладает этим редким даром, автоматически развиваются все хорошие качества характера.
(c) 2000-2004, Доктор О.Г.Торсунов, WWW.TORSUNOV.RU

The secret of living in peace with people · Секрет жизни в мире с людьми

Every morning motto · Девиз каждого утра

PS: no ego allowed here ;)
ПС: для эго в этом не должно быть места ;)

25 responsibilities for a happy family life · 25 обязанностей для счастливой семейной жизни

25 RESPONSIBILITIES OF A WOMAN
1. To get married and create a family
2. To preserve the family
3. To "make" her man a man
4. To organize all domestic cares
5. To exercise domestic cares
6. To be loyal to her husband with her body, in her deeds and thoughts
7. To become her man's best friend
8. To be beautiful and attractive to her man
9. To inspire her man
10. To eat sweet meats
11. To wear jewelry
12. To enjoy beautiful clothing
13. To wear long skirts
14. To always experience closeness to her man - to not estrange from him
15. To respect her man
16. To appreciate and give praise to her man
17. To admire her man
18. To obey her man
19. To manage her emotions
20. To be moderate and patient
21. To speak serenely and gently
22. To be sensitive and tender
23. Take part in child-rearing
24. To do good to her husband - do it with love
25. To not fulfill her husband's role.

25 RESPONSIBILITIES OF A MAN
1. To take leadership in man-woman relationships
2. To being responsible for external policy - having friends, relationships with other people
3. To expanding space - house, flat
4. To earning family income
5. To identifying his personal nature: "intellectual"/"manager"/"trader"/"crafter"
6. To finding a job/business in accordance with his personal nature
7. To giving inspiration/permission to his wife
8. To respecting his wife
9. To feeling reverence for his wife, protecting her
10. To not criticizing his wife, accepting her the way she is
11. To not talking over his wife
12. To being responsible for moral education of his family
13. To being responsible for physical development of his family
14. To being responsible for spiritual/religious education of his family
15. To being the leader in child-rearing
16. To identifying principles of mutual life - understanding of purpose of life
17. To differentiating spheres of mutual life - man must know which are his duties and which ones belong to his wife
18. To being serious human being
19. To being person respected by the society
20. To understanding woman's changeable nature
21. To providing his woman with sweet meets, jewelry and beautiful garments
22. To being loving to his wife so she could feel it
23. To eat cereals
24. To feeling reverence for his wife's parents and respecting them more than his own parents
25. Husband's parents have to respect their daughter-in-law more their own son

Purpose of creating a family · Смысл создания семьи

"Family life aims not at resolving personal conflicts and problems but by having stable and strong harmony within the family to benefit your own children and society...indeed those who help other people automatically resolve problems of their own relationships. It is not possible for those who focus on resolving their own problems in the first place. One must know that if he creates family in a wrong way he/she will spend all his energy on solving family problems. In this case he/she will be absolutely useless for society...
...Incorrect understanding of purpose of creating family will influence further destiny of a person...Life in a family where relatives do not have and share sublime aspiration can be compared to surgical intervention... There will surely be pain and offenses. Moreover their whole life together will not be enough for such family to understand that all difficulties they faced were their lessons. It is only then you are good in studies when you do not cut your own intestine in order to practice methods of help. In the same way it is better to learn helping others when your family is in peace and you have energy and time to help."
(c) 2000-2004, Doctor O.G. Torsunov, www.torsunov.ru

What every girl must remember · Что должно помнить каждой девушке

"Indeed, our loved ones' main need is love. Only the one who is full of love is able to share it. That is why when you take care of yourself you help people who are closest to you...just by taking care of yourself, your energy and happiness".

"На самом деле самая главная потребность наших близких – это любовь. И любовью может делиться только тот, кто ею полон. Поэтому в то время, когда ты заботишься о себе, — ты помогаешь своим близким... Просто тем, что заботишься о себе, своей энергии, своем счастье".

The most important kind of freedom. Самая важная из свобод

Affirmation of the day . Аффирмация дня

Girls have a superb day!
Девочки, отличнейшего вам дня!

If you want to go fast - go alone. If you want to go far - go together

Source: http://vk.com/workart

How and why Girls must become happy · Как и зачем стать счастливой

Source: http://www.templeofthephoenix.org

What is "moon energy" and its practical importance? Why women go through stress in the modern world? How women lead their fight with stress to no effect? What increases women's moon energy and what makes her stress resistance rise? How can we, beautiful flowers, get filled with pure energy of happiness?

No matter, what religion we follow, to what nationality we belong, on what values we are based on, I say "big thanks" to Olga Valyaeva and Ruslan Narushevich who cleared up the topic and broad based "recipe" of women happiness in simple but inspiring manner. 

Что такое лунная энергия и в чём заключается её практическая важность? Почему в наш век женщина испытывает стресс? Как женщины безрезультатно борются со стрессом? От чего увеличивается лунная энергия или повышается стрессоустойчивость женщины? Как нам, прекрасным цветкам, зарядиться истинной энергией счастья?

Неважно, какую религию мы исповедуем, к какой национальности принадлежим, на каких ценностях зиждемся, за простое, но вдохновляющее раскрытие этой темы и "рецепта" счастья, универсальные по своей природе, я говорю Ольге Валяевой и Руслану Нарушевичу "Большое спасибо".